My husband sleeps with my maids. I have always suspected him till I brought one that exposed him after much troubles in the home. In fact this marriage almost broke up few months ago as a result of this, I have brought another girl who am even trying to brush up, my husband is still sleeping with her, the girl confessed to me on Tuesday after much suspicion and persuasion from me, it appears he carries the girl whole sale immediately I leave to work.
I work and have to go to work everyday, I also have 2 kids of 6 and 3yrs, also he has been out of job for sometimes now. I am the one paying the bills, so I need this job and also a maid to take care of the kids.
My home has always been threatened because of his cheating attitudes, but I decided to over look it thinking it was just his numerous girl friends out there, but with my maids???? He came back from a journey 2months ago and promised he has changed and that he has decided to put pride away and make his marriage work, i accepted and there has been peace in the house since then, but I thought he will respect him self and keep away from my maids. I feel he is suspecting that I am aware of his recent moves and has started causing trouble in the house again, but I don't want to ask him. I want to take the maid to our pastor and also a close family friend so that she can say all that has happened before them but I still don't know if that's the best thing to do..... Please urgent advice from mature minds needed! Thanks.
36 comments:
This is really annoying! Peace biko who is this woman? She needs a hot slap to wake up from her slumber! Chai!
To a pastor and then what? Why are you blaming all the maids?? It's that dog in your house that needs to be taken to the pastor!
Take heart dear! Pray for your home
All men are dogs! Damn!
If he does this in your home, how much more what he does outside!
Some women sha! I'm sure this is a case of the I must marry saga! Why did you marry him? He was a player as a youth & you think marriage can change him? Lol
Take care of your home & forget about the idiot. The Lord is your strength nne
Marriage is for better for worst. Take heart and pray about it,divorce is not an option pls
Maids maids maids?! Haven't u realized that they re the cause of wat u are going thru? Stop bringing in maids pls!
Pls be careful! Ur lyf is at risk more than you know it! B4 d mumu give u STD or HIV pls!
Pray for him cos only God can change a man,divorce is out of it
I see u are d type dat says I rather die in d marriage dan b out of it. OK o,thnk God peace no ryt ur name,I 4 go look for u carry u go for deliverance cos u need am
Leave maids! Hire a nanny(an older woman) who coma & goes daily simple!
Y are u still hiring maids biko nne? Whyyyyy???? Ur hubby is jobless, he stays at home all day,he has the strength to sleep with the maids,he should use that strength to take care of d kids.
Enough talk e binu! Starve d dog to death!
It's a pity! I am nt married so I don't have any advise
No one deserves wat u are goin through. Go to court
Pls who are those people sayin divorce is not an option? If she was d one dat is jobless & still sleeps wit all d male house helps will she still be in dat house?! 😠😬😠😬 d whole world wud hv known! Pls my sista I am sure in ur hrt u knw wat 2 do,follo ur hrt & don't luk back. Is dat d gratitude he should b showing u? Nw if she cut of his prick dey wud say women are evil. Pls who deserves wat dz woman is going through?
If na me b ur frnd,I 4 slap u! Y do u nid a maid wen u hav one at home but fail to notice d idiot. Dat guy is nt a man! Dat is irresponsibility at its peak. He's disgrace 2 men
Madam stop hiring maids,tell him there's no money to hire a maid,he shud tkia of his kids
& u are stil thinking of wat 2 do KO?
I am nt saying doin it outside is fair,but bringing it to ur home & rubing it in ur face? Haba,d man has no single respect for u.
God punish all those women/ladies who knw a man is married n still agree to sleep with him! God also punish all men/guys who knw dey are engaged/married n still fuck other women God punish men that knw a woman is married n still fuck her
That's by far disgusting!, shame on him
Marriage nd it problem
Ehya! I have one like dat at home. Men are pigs
Maybe u stop performing ur wife duties bcos of work,if so pls start but even at dat u don't deserve dz
Shebi your are working? Take your kids and leave him with the maids since he prefers dem to u,,,,,,rubbish
Call d both family for meeting, tak ur kids n move away for a while, na better hunger go hammer am,u hv better advantage sef since u are workin.
Ur husband nids Jesus simple
N I ws complaining abt my hubby? Hmmmmm,at list dat 1 still works, puts food on my table, pays d kids school fees n attends to my needs
Dump his sori ass
Don't invite a 3rd party,handle it ursef.
Abeg Male house helps don finish? Na wa o u sef follo dey cause am
Do you have a daughter? If yes pls take her away from him,is vry important! Pls pls
So he was a player in his youth & u want him to kip dat thing btw his leg for u alone? Wen he's used to variety? Not possible. D mistake has already been made cos it's b4 u married him u shud hav sorted dz outt not now! Once a cheat,always a fucking cheat. Ladies take note,wen u should take notice of all dz is now dat u re courting. U probably thought u won ova d oda gals since he married u,u wrong. U just sentenced ursef to life imprisonment wit hard labour dear
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